tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post4380786941045689707..comments2024-03-26T05:15:39.663-07:00Comments on Equestrian Ink: The Hardest ChoiceJami Davenporthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05259390150273030284noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-33008249913682893052013-10-05T17:19:50.572-07:002013-10-05T17:19:50.572-07:00Good luck with this decision, Laura. I too, know h...Good luck with this decision, Laura. I too, know how hard it is. When I made the decision to put my dear donkey Josie down (suffering from crippling laminitis) I made several tearful phone calls to my vet. It's time, it's not time. I knew it was finally time when one day she did not even want me to touch her. She told me plainly. I hope your decision will become clear at one point also, and I so feel for you. You've given Gunner a wonderful life. Thinking of you, Laura.Linda Bensonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17948970237555890150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-34176915050158926462013-10-03T22:40:07.751-07:002013-10-03T22:40:07.751-07:00Not yet, But far too soon.
Hugs.
BillNot yet, But far too soon.<br /><br />Hugs.<br /><br />BillAllenspark Lodgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06390004633731055728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-16552011234361049812013-10-03T19:01:46.142-07:002013-10-03T19:01:46.142-07:00Thank you Kate--I know you have been there--I thou...Thank you Kate--I know you have been there--I thought of you and Noble often as I walked through this. Gunner is better for the moment, but I know what I am facing. Thank you all so much.Laura Crumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15200878892304748308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-1406639445750745172013-10-03T16:58:03.077-07:002013-10-03T16:58:03.077-07:00I am so sorry. You are listening to him and that&...I am so sorry. You are listening to him and that's what's important - he'll tell you when it's time, and you're right, at his age and in his condition, it's not far off. Enjoy the moments you have left with him - it's good that he's at home with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-46848580788877274892013-10-03T13:44:52.535-07:002013-10-03T13:44:52.535-07:00Thanks all. Gunner is actually significantly "...Thanks all. Gunner is actually significantly "better" today--as in much more comfortable and quite perky. The bute seems to be working as a short term solution. I am just going to keep taking it one day at a time. As long as Gunner is eating, seems comfortable enough and eager to be caught and grazed (and the weather is pleasant)--which is all true right now, I think he has decent quality of life. I am pretty sure that he won't be able enjoy life much once it gets cold and wet...so I am trying to cherish every day. Laura Crumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15200878892304748308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-70465078567544099082013-10-03T13:17:34.440-07:002013-10-03T13:17:34.440-07:00I think that Gunner is cherishing this time with y...I think that Gunner is cherishing this time with you as well.Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07335385366138424092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-79565866130327470112013-10-03T12:34:43.542-07:002013-10-03T12:34:43.542-07:00I wish there was something I could say that would ...I wish there was something I could say that would make it easier for you, but I know there isn't. It sounds like he is at a turning point, and you recognize it. Now it's all in your lap. I (unfortunately) have a dog at that stage too. I try to make him feel as good as I can, and as loved as I can. I think that's a little bit easier with a dog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-11629439288315281822013-10-03T08:44:21.041-07:002013-10-03T08:44:21.041-07:00So hard reading this post. I know what it's l...So hard reading this post. I know what it's like when they do Not want to let go of life!HHmsteadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16129136410081149976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-12917496891373322992013-10-03T08:36:40.038-07:002013-10-03T08:36:40.038-07:00Getting older sucks because as we age so does ever...Getting older sucks because as we age so does everyone and everything around us. Our family members, our friends, our pets, so many we hold close to our heart. It seems like I am constantly having to say goodbye or help someone else through their loss.<br /><br />A long life lived well is some comfort, and I know you have that with Gunner. Jannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-30106151467469323752013-10-03T05:13:26.496-07:002013-10-03T05:13:26.496-07:00Enjoy these days, he needs your attention so give ...Enjoy these days, he needs your attention so give it with no worry for him. He will tell you when it is time, for now love him and share in his time left.Pattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18093706178631084468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-3084738877123036432013-10-02T23:18:28.385-07:002013-10-02T23:18:28.385-07:00Oh, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this....Oh, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. Hugs to you both.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04068684611506771719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-92208054520690902732013-10-02T16:28:47.847-07:002013-10-02T16:28:47.847-07:00Oh, Laura, such a sad post, but you wrote it so we...Oh, Laura, such a sad post, but you wrote it so well--keeping Gunner's 'feelings' foremost.<br /><br />Good luck and keep us posted.Alisonhttp://www.alisonhartbooks.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-56312465487700504922013-10-02T15:14:27.285-07:002013-10-02T15:14:27.285-07:00Gun Diva--That's exactly what I feel. He was t...Gun Diva--That's exactly what I feel. He was telling me it won't be too long now before he's ready. Its time for me to get ready and to be aware that any day now can be the "last day." Its always true, of course, but right now it is, uhmm, emphatically true. I am paying attention. Gunner looks much more normal today than yesterday, so he is still moving towards the relatively comfortable, even if not sound, space he was in before Monday. We'll see what each day brings.Laura Crumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15200878892304748308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-30222287345734778652013-10-02T14:24:54.180-07:002013-10-02T14:24:54.180-07:00That's awful. I'm glad you're able to...That's awful. I'm glad you're able to keep him comfortable and I'm glad you're waiting until he tells you it's time. Maybe he was just trying to tell you to get ready :(<br /><br />I'm so thankful Estes was absolutely clear when it was time - I don't know that I would trust myself to know otherwise.<br /><br />Gunner's lucky to have such wonderful humans who love him.<br /><br />((hugs))GunDivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02965363044411500380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-39730752517193727022013-10-02T14:24:11.643-07:002013-10-02T14:24:11.643-07:00It's a heartbreaking decision, but thank God w...It's a heartbreaking decision, but thank God we are able to make it and don't have to watch our animals suffer. And Promise is right - every animal I've had to put down has been absolutely spunky on the way to their appointment. Still, I knew what I was doing was the right thing for them.Gayle Carlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15783449240138097315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-9309925677360611412013-10-02T13:18:56.759-07:002013-10-02T13:18:56.759-07:00Thanks all. I just got back from spending time han...Thanks all. I just got back from spending time hand grazing Gunner in the sunshine. He's a little better than yesterday. Still lame, but less so, eating better and more comfortable. I know the time is coming and is not too far away, but for the moment, he is having some pleasant moments. His eye is very bright, he nickers and comes to the gate as soon as he sees me, and he moves out at a long swinging walk, despite the fact that he is not sound. One day at a time...Laura Crumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15200878892304748308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-33964860383924873632013-10-02T13:04:52.982-07:002013-10-02T13:04:52.982-07:00We are all thinking of you, because we have all be...We are all thinking of you, because we have all been through this process as well. I am certain your dear boy will let you know, and I'm glad you are preparing yourself for the day to come. Sounds like you have a vet that's on the same page which is a HUGE help. Good luck with this most difficult of decisions. RiderWriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05679157278313699794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-56673177430236352392013-10-02T11:22:34.968-07:002013-10-02T11:22:34.968-07:00Aw, definitely not what I was hoping to hear. My h...Aw, definitely not what I was hoping to hear. My heart goes out to you, but hopefully you can take solace in the wonderful life that you have provided for Gunner for 30 (!!!!!) years. Many hugs to both of you.jenjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01737679332792618499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-46374925039014600442013-10-02T11:08:53.799-07:002013-10-02T11:08:53.799-07:00My thoughts are with you. It is a hard thing to d...My thoughts are with you. It is a hard thing to do but you are doing the right thing the right way. <br /> horsegeneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08614136458074519322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-70240887550697993222013-10-02T09:44:09.979-07:002013-10-02T09:44:09.979-07:00Gunner will let you know, and you will do the righ...Gunner will let you know, and you will do the right thing when he says it's time. My OTTB is 19 and he's a happy, healthy boy. Vet says horse looks 10 and acts a lot younger. So, we're good to go on with our dressage lesson and, with luck, we'll be ready to tackle a show or two next year.<br /><br />That said, I know how difficult it is to live from day to day with animals that are heading down that final road. Gunner knows you will be there for him and that's important, too. Prayers to you and Gunner.TBDancerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03889066602819359591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-110367616737114072013-10-02T09:43:33.891-07:002013-10-02T09:43:33.891-07:00I'm so sorry to read this but I think that wit...I'm so sorry to read this but I think that with your pragmatic yet sensitive approach to your horses you will know when it's time.<br />We've been through it twice, last year and the year before, with dogs. Oh the agonizing, oh the guilt, yet oh the relief when the deed is done and your believed friend's body finally relaxes. <br />I felt honoured to have been able to help my old friends on their way. I know for sure you'll miss him when he finally goes, but you can take pride in the great life he had with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-5943541674919674002013-10-02T09:37:55.788-07:002013-10-02T09:37:55.788-07:00:( Best wishes:( Best wishesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01344662726517478751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-53332332680343605562013-10-02T08:26:05.153-07:002013-10-02T08:26:05.153-07:00I'm so sorry, Laura. I definitely experienced ...I'm so sorry, Laura. I definitely experienced this up and down with Promise and it is incredibly difficult to be in that limbo. There is no right or wrong answer, as long as Gunner is not suffering - but you know that already!<br /><br />As Angelina said, he will tell you when he is ready. And if he's anything like Promise, he'll be 99% fine the day before the vet comes out.Promisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12338935046262804307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-24565170986003844192013-10-02T08:22:38.308-07:002013-10-02T08:22:38.308-07:00I hope so Angelia. I believe he will. I try to be ...I hope so Angelia. I believe he will. I try to be open to the message and have had it clearly from past animals that I had to put down. But its never easy--its always hard to trust that I will know.Laura Crumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15200878892304748308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037107797013641705.post-82168857620457514722013-10-02T08:18:57.529-07:002013-10-02T08:18:57.529-07:00I'm sorry to hear that Laura. He'll tell y...I'm sorry to hear that Laura. He'll tell you when he's ready.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18370670423819447249noreply@blogger.com