by Laura Crum
I
think what we sometimes forget when we have horses is the idea of having fun.
There is more to horses than having fun, of course. We need to care for them
responsibly and we grow to love them and grieve when they are hurt or come to
the end of their lives. Sometimes our “fun” is just the joy we feel when we
walk down to feed our horse and he nickers (and that is a very real form of
fun). But I think most of us have, at some time or another, connected to the
delightful form of fun that one feels when riding a horse. Not the thrill of
competition or the struggle/joy of training, but the simple, pure fun in being
carried by the horse in those moments that are free of anxiety or the worry
over whether one is doing it right. Just the plain old fun of horseback riding.
I think we sometimes forget about that fun when we get caught up in all the
other elements of horse ownership.
I
got reminded of this the other day when we had our first practice roping of the
year. We didn’t do much, just gathered the cattle and put them through the
chutes and started teaching them how to be roping cattle. Maybe ten of us, all
horseback, in the spring sunshine. It was a blast. Just being on our horses,
moving cattle—nothing fancy. The fun of riding with friends.
So
today I’m going to post a few photos showing the fun we’re having, and what I’m
hoping is to inspire others to take a quick moment to think of the pure fun you
can have on your horse—despite the goals you maybe haven’t yet achieved, or the
issues you sometimes face. Because horses are FUN. (I know that not everyone
can chase cattle, but just riding down the trail or in the riding ring on your
good horse—with friends or solo—can be lots of fun, too.)
Here
we are, getting ready to ride at my uncle’s place. My son is holding Sunny so I
can take my horse’s photo. Do these horses look relaxed or what?
Below
you see me and Sunny leading the way down the hill through the forest.
Here
my son has pushed the cattle out of the forest and is following the other guys
up the hill to the corrals.
My
kid and his horse, Henry, are chasing a fresh steer down the arena to the
stripping chutes.
And
here they are, along with our friend, Mark, and Coal, bringing the roping
steers up the alley.
Now,
nothing too terribly exciting is happening in any of these photos. We are
walking or trotting in all of them, though we do chase the steers at the high
lope from time to time. Our horses are, as you can see, relaxed and quiet.
Nobody is worried, nobody is doing anything that requires much skill or
training, either. Pretty much any halfway competent rider on a broke horse
could do what we are doing. And we’re all, horses included, having fun. I think
that sometimes we can get so caught up in what we’re trying to accomplish with
our horses, and the goals we are striving for, that we forget to relax and have
fun.
If you have a halfway gentle horse
you can enjoy walk/trot/loping in the spring sunshine. It’s a sort of fun that
most of us CAN have with our horses, even if we’re not up for jumping big
fences, or riding 50 miles or don’t own any cattle. I try to remember this
whenever I feel jealous/envious of what others are doing with their horses. The
main thing (other than being a good, responsible owner) is to have fun.
And
finally, the last of my eight out-of-print books, “Forged,” is now up on Kindle
for 99 cents. “Forged” is a fun, mostly upbeat book—yes, it’s a murder mystery,
so someone has to die, but the victim is your classic always-late, womanizing
horseshoer, so the crime isn’t all that tragic.
Here’s
a quick summary.
FORGED: Gail’s
horseshoer is shot in her barnyard, while shoeing her horse, embroiling Gail in
the ensuing investigation. No shortage of suspects in this crime, and
unfortunately Gail is one of them.
Also,
there is a little “prank” in this book. Something I put in to amuse myself. So
far no reader has mentioned it to me—perhaps no one has noticed. Or perhaps
some have noticed and just been too polite to call it to my attention. But for
those of you who are reading the series in order, see if you find anything odd
about a certain scene in Forged.
And there are still two more opportunities to acquire the
last four titles in my mystery series for FREE. Simply email Susan Daniel at susan@danielpublishing.com with
your snail mail address and your agreement to review all four books on Amazon.
I’ll be on vacation next week, so no Weds post from me. But
true to my word, all of the first eight out-of-print titles in my mystery
series are available on Kindle for 99 cents by the end April, just as I
promised. Here’s the link to buy them. The order is Cutter, Hoofprints,
Roughstock, Roped, Slickrock, Breakaway, Hayburner and Forged.
Perfect post, Laura.
ReplyDeleteBefore we thought possible, I got to enjoy a bit of that pure FUN yesterday with Phat Boy. He was comfortable enough for me to crawl up on, bareback with a halter and lead, me in shorts and sneakers, to plod along down the driveway and back.
I don't know which of us was grinning bigger. Phat Boy looked pretty pleased with himself for the rest of the day, and had a definite air of smugness about him that lasted until this morning. I could swear he looked at Tater and gloated. (I know, I know.. but still- to see the 2 of them for the entire rest of the day? I'm betting you would have thought so too! LOL)
Here's hoping there will be loads MORE fun in the future for ALL of us!
Yay, Mrs Mom! So glad to hear you are riding your good red pony again. May you have many more happy rides.
ReplyDeleteAs you get older, you just don't need the adrenaline rushes anymore do you? It looks like a great day you guys had. I hope your books are doing well on Kindle.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Susan. We are having lots of fun with our horses--and the books are selling briskly. So its all good.
ReplyDeleteFun is the point of it all, I think. Sometimes I have fun just because the horse takes me both out of myself and deeper within myself at the same time, if that makes any sense. It's that being in the moment and just doing it that connects me to what is important. Lovely post, and great photos, and thanks for the next book!
ReplyDeleteKate--you put it much better than I did. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteAn iron-hanger shot in the book, well what can I say. There are shoers out there for whom karma ought to store up bad things - for dropping heels and allowing toes to flare and get long, and more besides.
ReplyDeleteThere is a Sherlock Holmes story where a death at a barn is investigated, and it turns out that a maltreated horse kicked the villain in the head with fatal results.
whp--I can honestly say I never used EXACTLY that solution, but close. Let's see, in one of my books...I did use something similar. I think it was Hayburner. Anyway, plot twists and turns are fun.
ReplyDeleteLaura - and there is me still inhabiting a Tolkienesque warp where a fell warrior or a skilled archer does the business.
ReplyDeleteThere again, riding the very hills where King Alfred vanquished the Vikings does bring on a certain mindset. There's a village where, a millennium after that battle, poppies are still called "Danes' blood".
whp--Well I love Tolkien's work, so this resonates for me. Poppies called "Dane's blood"--now that's interesting. It really makes one feel connected to the past.
ReplyDeleteHave a great vacation Laura and post lots of pictures so I can vacation vicariously through you!
ReplyDelete